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Curated insights, grounded research, and practical strategies for real-life wellness without the fluff.
The Travel Essentials I Actually Use for Long-Haul Flights
Long-haul flights don’t have to feel exhausting before you even arrive. This post shares the travel essentials I actually use to make international flights more comfortable, organized, and manageable.
Surviving Family Get-Togethers Without Burning Out
As the holidays approach, burnout doesn’t magically disappear — it often gets louder. In this post, Melissa Lefort shares her personal experience with burnout recovery and introduces the Tweakable Reset Playbook: small, research-backed shifts that help calm the nervous system, reduce overwhelm, and make space for joy during a season that can otherwise feel like too much.
How to Choose the Best International Flight from the U.S. to Europe (Without Getting Overwhelmed)
Not sure how to choose the “right” international flight to Europe? Most people book international flights based on price alone—and then wonder why day one feels so hard. This beginner-friendly guide breaks down timing, layovers, seats, and simple strategies to reduce jet lag and decision fatigue before you ever board the plane- so you can travel to Europe with more confidence and less stress.
Is Anybody Out There?
When women carry the invisible load alone, burnout doesn’t just exhaust the body- it fractures connection and erodes a sense of worth. In this guest post, Melissa explores why healing burnout requires community, not perfection, and how small, intentional acts of connection can help women find their way out of isolation and back to one another.
Did I Sign Up for This?
For years, Melissa carried the weight of the Invisible Load without realizing it had a name. From managing birthdays to tracking groceries, she did it all… until she discovered the research behind mental labor and how it quietly fuels burnout.
The Subtraction Lab, Issue 8: How to Stop Bracing for Impact
When life feels unstable, our first instinct is to tighten, plan, and prepare for the next blow. But real steadiness doesn’t come from control — it comes from presence. This week’s Subtraction Lab explores how to stop bracing for impact and find calm within uncertainty.
Is it just me?
For years, Melissa thought her exhaustion and restlessness were just part of being a woman in her forties- teaching, parenting, and juggling it all. But when every new job brought the same feelings of depletion and dissatisfaction, she realized something deeper was going on. Was it burnout… or a midlife reckoning?
The Subtraction Lab, Issue 7: The Cost of Codependence.
Ever feel like you’re managing everyone’s emotions but your own? This week’s Subtraction Lab explores the quiet burnout and codependency behind being the “Director of Everything”, and how to reclaim your energy, boundaries, and peace of mind.
The Subtraction Lab, Issue 6: Noticing Your Intuition
Most of us were taught to push harder, think smarter, or “figure it out” when life feels overwhelming. But what if your exhaustion isn’t a problem to outthink—but a signal to listen more deeply? In this issue, we explore the idea that intuition isn’t a soft extra, but a compass—especially when the way forward feels unclear.
The Subtraction Lab, Issue 5: The Discomfort of Calm and Why Stillness Makes you Restless
We spend so long surviving on stress that contentment feels foreign. But real change, in our nervous system or our lives, begins when we learn to stay still long enough to let the shift happen.
The Subtraction Lab, Issue 4: The Myth of Multitasking & Why Doing Less Leads to More Focus and Fulfillment
Multitasking isn’t mastery—it’s distraction dressed up as productivity. Discover how doing less can help you regain focus, reduce burnout, and find more fulfillment in your work and life.
The Subtraction Lab, Issue 3: The Problem with All-or-Nothing Thinking
All-or-nothing thinking tricks you into believing “not perfect” means “not worth it.” But when you shrink things down to the 2% version, you still gain the benefit and build the habit. Learn how small choices stack up.
The Subtraction Lab, Issue 2: Your To-Do List Is Lying to You
When we overload ourselves with endless to-do’s, our brains never get the satisfaction of completion- which increases stress and drains motivation. The good news? There’s a simple solution.
The Subtraction Lab, Issue 1: Outsmart Burnout by Doing Less to Feel Better
It only takes one minor shift to start feeling better. The problem is, most people wait years before they take action.
The Invisible Load of Motherhood: How the Fair Play System Helps Women Reclaim Time and Balance
Feeling overwhelmed by invisible labor? Learn how the Fair Play system helps women divide tasks fairly and reclaim time for what lights them up.